{"id":48995,"date":"2025-11-18T13:20:49","date_gmt":"2025-11-18T12:20:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pulskasvakodnevnica.com\/?p=48995"},"modified":"2025-11-18T13:20:50","modified_gmt":"2025-11-18T12:20:50","slug":"ljudi-ne-govore-ono-sto-misle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/pulskasvakodnevnica.com\/index.php\/2025\/11\/18\/ljudi-ne-govore-ono-sto-misle\/","title":{"rendered":"LJUDI NE GOVORE ONO \u0160TO MISLE"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Pi\u0161e: Augusta Ben\u010di\u0107 Ivan\u010din<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uglavnom se rije\u010di koriste prigodno, poput dress codea, biraju se prema okolnostima i doga\u0111ajima. Nisam to tek nedavno otkrila, ali svaki me put jednako ili dodatno iznenadi, rastu\u017ei i razo\u010dara.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

U dru\u0161tvu \u0107e svi rado komentirati doga\u0111aje i ljude i iznijeti svoje mi\u0161ljenje no, ako ste vi ona jedina osoba koja \u0107e to isto mi\u0161ljenje ili vi\u0111enje doga\u0111aja re\u0107i, potpuno nefiltrirano, osobi koje se to ti\u010de, znate o \u010demu govorim. Ne radi se tu uvijek samo o tra\u010devima, nego o stvarima, situacijama i ljudima koji direktno utje\u010du na va\u0161 \u017eivot, \u017eivot va\u0161e djece ili va\u0161 posao. Nastavljamo koegzistirati, naj\u010de\u0161\u0107e uz nepotrebno lo\u0161u vibru i energiju koju nam takve situacije neizostavno crpe, ali ponekad i na \u0161tetu onoga koji nema hrabrosti, mudrosti ili znanja re\u0107i ono \u0161to misli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ponekad uistinu jest pametnije pre\u0161utjeti ili birati neke rije\u010di, ako mo\u017eete podnijeti \u017ertvu koju \u0107e one uzeti od vas jer rije\u010di vole biti izre\u010dene ili napisane. Najgore \u0161to mo\u017eete u\u010diniti nekoj rije\u010di je zatomiti je, negirati, zaboraviti i ostaviti u sebi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Veliki sam \u0161tovatelj rije\u010di, volim ih pisati i govoriti, zato i one vole mene. Ne biram izme\u0111u velikih i malih, dajem im podjednaku va\u017enost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jesu li me rije\u010di ko\u0161tale u \u017eivotu? Itekako. Previ\u0161e puta. Jednako kako mogu na\u0161koditi neizre\u010dene, mogu i one izre\u010dene, pogotovo ako su izre\u010dene nepromi\u0161ljeno.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jesu li mi se rije\u010di isplatile, jesu li me nagradile? Nije bitno koliko puta, dovoljno da zasjeni cijenu koju sam platila, dovoljno da se isplati.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vi\u0161e bih povukla svojih djela nego rije\u010di, a opet, ne bih nijedno, jer sam zadovoljna osobom kakva sam danas, a to zadovoljstvo nije mogu\u0107e posti\u0107i samo uspjesima i djelima kojima se ponosimo, treba pasti, dotaknuti dno, biti povrije\u0111en, prevaren, razo\u010daran u sve i u samog sebe da bi rastao i nadrastao te situacije i ljude.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kako \u017eive ljudi koji gotovo nikad ne govore ono \u0161to misle? Ne mogu to ni zamisliti. Ne mogu zamisliti koli\u010dinu gnjeva i jada koju neizre\u010dene rije\u010di gomilaju u njima. Jedino znam koliko tuge u meni izaziva spoznaja koliko su mo\u0107no oru\u017eje zakopali u sebi, koliko su ljubavi ubili i koliko su lijepih trenutaka propustili. Od neizre\u010denih rije\u010di, preko maski iza kojih se skrivaju do \u017ertvi la\u017ei koje su postali. La\u017ene rije\u010di nemaju istu te\u017einu kao iskrene, brzo se rasplinu i nestaju bez traga. Ne donose ni\u0161ta, odnose sve. La\u017ei nisu isto \u0161to i zablude. Kada \u017eivimo u zabludi va\u017eno je da to shvatimo, prihvatimo i priznamo. Rije\u010di koje smo povrijedili i zavarali vlastitim zabludama oprostit \u0107e nam i pomaziti nas olak\u0161anjem i ljubavlju kad ih, napokon, izgovorimo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ne znam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oprosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pogrije\u0161ila sam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pomogni mi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Te su mi rije\u010di donijele vi\u0161e dobroga od ijedne (namjerne) la\u017ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lijepe rije\u010di, iskrene pohvale i ljubaznost donose jo\u0161 i vi\u0161e. Ne znam za\u0161to ljudi pre\u0161u\u0107uju lijepe rije\u010di i pohvale. Ne znam za\u0161to radije njeguju ljubomoru nego ponos. Nema ni\u0161ta ljep\u0161e od iznena\u0111enja, osmijeha i topline koju pru\u017ea osoba koju si iskreno pohvalio. Kad se raduje\u0161 zbog drugoga osje\u0107a\u0161 se jo\u0161 i bolje nego kad se raduje\u0161 zbog sebe. Kada tuguje drugi ta te tuga poga\u0111a vi\u0161e nego vlastita, iako nisi uvijek svjestan toga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Misli nas mogu odvesti u krivom smjeru, fluidne su, nisu stvarne. Kad ih izgovori\u0161, postaju stvarne, te\u0161ke i netko ti mo\u017ee pomo\u0107i ponijeti ih i oplemeniti vlastitim mislima ili, u slu\u010daju onih negativnih, potpuno ih poni\u0161titi svojom pozitivom. Ako ih izgovori\u0161 krivoj osobi, ona ti ih mo\u017ee ukrasti, ali na svaku ukradenu dolazi deset oplemenjenih, ne zaboravi to. \u0160krt \u010dovjek ima samo ono \u0161to on ima, a dare\u017eljiv ima sve \u0161to imaju svi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Njegujte svoje misli kroz rije\u010di, izgovarajte ih puno i \u010desto, u\u017eivajte u njihovom zvuku i svemu lijepome \u0161to \u0107e uslijediti kao posljedica njihovog osloba\u0111anja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(PS \/ A.B.I.)<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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